Monday, May 16, 2011

Made Do & Mend Mondays


This project was strictly a make-do on all counts.  First there has been my desire for a new summer coverlet or spread for my bed.  Between budget increases due to higher costs and the lack of things I thought suitable in the stores, I was left with a 'make-do'.  I flipped an old quilt over to the plain backing, which is a nice creamy color.  That suited me better than any of the patterned bedspreads and comforters and quilts I'd seen to date.

But it seemed a bit bland.  I wanted to put away the shams I'd used all winter, but we were right back to the two previous problems, lack of funds and not liking what I found.

Eventually I remembered some fabric I had.  Not enough though to do shams with.  Then I brought out another fabric. I tried a swatch against the quilt and loved it.

When I cut out the shams I made an error.  I forgot to cut the back fabric long enough to allow for an envelope type opening to slip the pillow into.  I had more fabric but didn't want to waste what I had.  So I 'made-do' yet again.  I chose to make just plain pillow slips.  This is the result of all my making do!
I think I'll buy new shades for my lamps and perhaps I might also make valances for my windows from the remaining fabric.  I'm very happy with my new pillow covers.  What do you think?

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Menu Monday: Busy Week Ahead

This week I'm busy busy busy.  I've got yardwork projects going on, I've got porch projects, I have a big living room project I want to start, I've got a bedroom makerovers going on...Then I have routine work, shopping, errands, a car to service, hair appointment, cookout, special class, synagogue....Whew!  My goal this week: eat at home.  That means I need to have prepared foods to reheat, or crockpot meals. 

Monday:  Margherita Pizza, Green Salad
I have fresh mozzarella, fresh tomatoes and fresh basil on hand.  It seems a good time to make a pizza I've wanted to try for a good while.  I'll partially bake a second pizza crust, then make a pizza to pop in the freezer for a meal next week.
While the pizza dough is rising, I'll get busy making a few make ahead items for the week ahead.

Tuesday:  Roast Chicken, Potato Salad, Lemon Dill Green Beans, Crusty Bread
I hope to buy a deli roast chicken and a baguette today while I'm out shopping.  I'll make the potato salad on Monday.

Wednesday:  Chicken, Pear and Walnut Salad with Blue Cheese Dressing,  Crusty Bread and Butter, Ice Cream  Sandwiches

The salad is just as good with a raspberry vinegarette dressing...but I'll have blue cheese since I know that Chance likes it and the blue cheese is delicious with the pears and walnuts.  Leftover bread, toasted, and homemade ice cream sandwiches (grahams and ice cream, made on Monday) should make a nice meal.

Thursday:  Beef Shish Kebab, Wild Rice, Steamed Broccoli
Alan is due here to do more yard work and part of our bargaining included me feeding him dinner. I have zucchini, mushroom and vidalia onions to go on the skewers.  I'll start the meat marinating in Italian dresing Wednesday night,then assemble the kebabs in the morning so all I need do is run them under the broiler to cook. 

Friday:  Twice Baked Potatoes, Tossed Salad, Biscuits
We'll eat a small dinner today, since we're going to a cook out. I'm taking baked beans and thinking I might carry a pan of brownies as well.

Saturday:  Subway Sandwiches, chips, Apples
After the week just past, I think we'll just stop in town for a $5 footlong (I have coupons) and we'll take a break from cooking and clean up.

Sunday:  Meat Loaf, Green Peas, Spinach and Apple Salad, Corn Muffins
Freezer meat loaf and peas will bake in the oven (the peas covered to steam), alongside the corn muffins.  I'll slice an apple into pre-washed fresh spinach.

Sunday, May 15, 2011

Homemaking 101: Coming Clean



All of my former houses had one thing in common: clutter and dirt.  I began to get a grasp on the thing called housekeeping after living in that 1950's ranch for two years.  Two things happened at that time:  I met Chance and I became determined to take control of an out of control life, which manifested itself in my house.  Somehow I realized there was a connection between how I kept house and how my life kept seeming to spin away from me.  I was right!

I began the transformation just months before I met Chance, but he really helped a great deal.  Not because he was fussy, but because he was willing to lend a hand, lend his thinking to the mix.  That was important, with five kids, two jobs, and one adult in school as well!

I've said before there are, as far as I'm concerned, five basics that should happen every day: dishes, floors swept or vacuumed,  beds made, a load of laundry washed, dried, folded and put away, and meals cooked.  Those things were never skipped and seldom are to this day. 

This is my morning routine:  First thing after Chance has left for work, I head into our bathroom.  I hang towels, pick up dirty clothes (usually he does that), wipe the counters and swish the toilet.  I put away any item that is out.

Next I make our bed, rehang any clothes that were laundered the evening before (Chance does laundry about every third night during his work week), put away any item that doesn't belong on the desk, dresser or bedside tables.

In the living room, I straighten books and clear tabletops of all but decorative items.  I check trash and plump pillows.

Wipe off the dining room table, straighten the centerpiece and place mats, put out fresh napkins.

And finally in the kitchen, I load dishes into the dishwasher, (or wash by hand), wipe counters and stove top. 

I usually follow all these tasks with vacuuming and sweeping.  If the house is in order, these duties never take more than 1 hour/ 1 hour 15 minutes to do basics, aside from meal preparation and clean-up.  I'd say that three meals a day and clearing up after takes perhaps another 1-1 1/2 hours depending upon how difficult

On Mondays I work a little harder.  This is the day I'll fully clean the bathroom, strip beds and remake, mop floors, dust my area for the week and begin to tackle any zone work I want to tend to. On Mondays I might put in four hours of work, excluding meals.  Think of this day as the old fashioned laundry day.  Housewives in Granny's younger homemaking years, planned easier meals for those days.  I do the same.

I divide my home into four zones and each week of every month is devoted to tasks in the 'zone' of the week.  Zone 1:  Deck, Back entry, laundry, breakfast areas  
           Zone 2:  Living Room, Dining Room, front entry, front porch
           Zone 3:  Bedrooms and Baths
           Zone 4:  Kitchen

Zone work is a combination of routine tasks and special tasks.  I can do all the jobs in one day if I'm feeling energetic or crunched for time or spread it out over the week.  These are the tasks I normally do in each Zone:
Zone 1:  Remove dead plants, clean deck, straighten furniture, remove items that don't belong.
               In the laundry, entry, breakfast area: dust, clean windows, clean ceiling fan, run vinegar       through washer.  Brush down walls, clean doors

Zone 2:  Dusting, cleaning windows and blinds, chair rails, vacuum under furnishings, clean ceiling fans, straightening bookcases, vacuum along edges of room where carpet misses, sort magazines.

Zone 3:  Dusting, clean ceiling fans in bedrooms.  Vacuum edges of carpet, clean windows and blinds.  Dust walls, make sure closet and drawers are in order.  Wash mattress pad when bed is stripped.  In the baths: clean drains, scrub shower, dust walls, wash rugs and shower curtain liners.

Zone 4:  Wipe down all appliances and cabinet doors.  Clean microwave, run vinegar through dishwasher and coffee pot.  Clean under stove hood and wash filter. Clean fridge.  Wipe down walls, especially around work stations.  Do a pantry and freezer inventory.

Each month I add special jobs to each Zone area of work.  I might clean out cabinets, sort through papers that are filed, move off season clothes, flip mattresses (every three months), take down draperies and wash, air quilts, etc.  These are jobs that go with Spring or Fall cleaning, but I spread them out over the months.  

For all that it sounds as though my home is super clean, it isn't...but it is comfortably clean and almost always company ready. I am not a slave to my home, but I do clean six days a week.  With the exception of Monday, I seldom put more than two or three hours work into each day (including meals).  Mind you, I haven't a child at home, and there are only two of us.  The luxury of my routine and cleaning schedule means that I can have the clean home I like having and plenty of free time to write, work on projects, drop everything and go about with Chance during his off week.  If I'm ever sick, the work is light enough that I can do it and not tax myself.   And if I'm very ill, I can skip a day or two or three and the house won't be out of control.

There are things I don't do (I seldom see the need to iron for instance), and things I do more frequently than most households just because I like the jobs (cleaning bathrooms).   I take one day a week and do nothing as far as housework goes, not even make the bed unless company is coming.  I usually do my housework first thing each day.  I like having it out of the way when I'm at my high energy peak for the day.

Cleanliness is important, but order is what really brings peace into the home.

Homemaking 101: Anywhere You Live Is Home


(NOTE:  The original post published on May 11, 2011 disappeared when Blogger was having issues...All I had left was the first rough draft.  I've tried to recreate that finished post but frankly, I'm not sure how well I did that, since I can't recall the full post!)

Be it ever so humble, there's no place like home.

I don't suppose there's a woman alive who didn't spend a goodly portion of her childhood years dreaming of her own home.  In fairness, I must add that I heard my boys talk of their planned first homes, so it's not an exclusively female thing.  We all have our own ideals of what home will look like, feel like and be, drawn from many sources over our growing years.  For myself that ideal translated to living here on this property where I felt safe and happy and carefree and loved all my childhood years, as it did for my brother and my cousin.  This land was our haven.  Granny's little house was nice enough, but it was the feeling being there evoked for us that created the ideal of home in our minds.

My first married home was a well laid out three bedroom manufactured home, not large but airy, and quite nice and my own.  From there, the homes I lived in were increasingly less than ideal.  A little rented four room with central hall 1900's home that was too near the railroad tracks heated only by wood with not one whit of insulation to keep out the cold or heat, to a former railroad foreman's house in ill repair on a huge city lot that we bought and never improved upon or kept up for the ten years we lived there, a hospital room for two months, a 1950's ranch home rental that Chance and I poured heart and soul into making a home even as it fell in around us, to our current much loved manufactured home on Granny's former farm, now divided amongst family members.

The house too near the railroad had a kitchen on the west side of the house where full sun hit from just after noon until late evening.  Many a miserable meal was gotten in that lovely kitchen, which could do little to offset the sheer hell of being in an already overheated room trying to prepare a meal!

My third home could have been a lovely place but the lack of natural light in the living, dining and kitchen areas made it a gloomy place to dwell.  And that gloom in the living room was hard to dispell with one tiny window and dark brown walls and deep chocolate carpet on the floor.  Why we never bothered to buy one of those economy five gallon buckets of white paint and paint those walls I can't say.  The ranch home had lots of windows and I liked that a great deal but the laundry room was outdoors and around the corner (what nut thought that one out?), and the way the rooms were laid out the possibility of getting a breeze stirring was slim unless we were in the midst of a hurricane. 

By the time Chance and I were househunting for this home, we had a clear idea of what we wanted.  As well we had a large family.


Finding a place to live is the first important step you will take in homemaking, so do all you can to choose as wisely as possible. Armed with a list of ideals and a hard and fast budget you should be able to find a place to live that suits you and your current needs.

First things first, okay? Determine what you can afford for rent or payments before you start to look. Although we were assured we could pay twice as much per month for a place, we'd lived with our budget long enough to know full well what we truly could afford. Considering how things went those first few years, it's a good thing we stuck to our planned budget and not the loan officer's idea of what we could afford.

Experts seem to agree that housing costs should not exceed more than 33% of your monthly budget. That figure includes rent/house payment, basic utilites (phone, electric, water, gas) and insurance. Your budget may be more or less depending upon your personal debt obligations. While many agents will tell you the 'average' cost of electricity and water for a home, it's well to ask the utility company before making a final decision on the home.

If you're renting, be sure to check the crime rate of the area where you're looking.  It might be worthwhile to be a little further away from town if your only budgeted area is in an undesirable part of town.  Be willing to compromise on the less important parts of your list of ideals.  It would be the rare home indeed that was absolutely perfect and spot on budget as well. 

Have a clear idea of what you can and can't do to improve a place.  If you're a skilled handyman you might well negotiate a better price (or even an exchange of repairs for rent if you're not buying).  A fixer upper might be the ideal home for you if you're assured of the time to tend to such matters.   When the owner of the 1950's ranch discovered I'd paid to have the yard professionally cleaned up and hauled countless loads of discarded furniture and trash to the curb, she willingly agreed to allow further improvements to the property and repairs to the home in lieu of rent if I'd present her with the bill for service or receipt for materials bought.  Some homeowners won't allow you to paint walls or change a lightbulb unless they come in to do it themselves, so find out what the landlord's expectations and preferences are before you sign a lease.

We factored in gasoline costs in our budget when we moved here.  We knew it would cost more because, love it as we do, we're sort of in the middle of next to nowhere.  It's not uncommon in our area to drive 30-50 miles to shop for furnishings, food, seek entertainment, etc. 

Truthfully, all the faults and wonders of the homes we've lived in made the houses more or less ideal, but none of them made the house a HOME.  Home is where you live.  It's where you and the people who live with you, express their personality, seek haven from the world outside, feel loved and restored. 

Creating that sense of home...That's what this series is about.  Let's start with cleaning...

Friday, May 13, 2011

Frugal Friday/Living Well


Frugal Friday/Living Well

Another week just past and I am a weary woman. It has been work, work, work all week long this week...well except Mother's Day and that was my day after all!  Still a lot was accomplished this week and it all took some serious thinking to keep costs down. 

I'm including Living Well moments in each day's frugal doings.

Saturday:  Shabat service was followed by Oneg, a meal that is served  monthly following the first sabbath after new moon.  I thought and thought about what to take.  Finally decided upon Turkey and dressing.  I'd found half a turkey breast (cooked and frozen) in the freezer, made dressing from leftover cornbread I'd put in the freezer.  I crumbled the corn bread, added homemade chicken broth (from that freezer, are you catching the theme of this main dish?) chopped celery leaves and onion.  Baked until almost done and then topped with sliced turkey.  Wrapped the whole while hot in a thick towel, put into my insulated shopping bag and it was still hot when we were ready to serve dinner.  Works like a dream every time.

The rest of the meal was an easy salad: canned peach slices with mayonnaise and shredded cheddar on a bed of lettuce.  Chilled cranberry sauce and a reused plastic juice bottle filled with cold tea I'd made at home.  Any guess as to where the Banana Poundcake served for dessert came from?  That's right!  That lovely freezer.  This was without a doubt the easiest meal I've prepared to take anywhere in a long while. 

We were offered and accepted BBQ chicken sandwiches from the wealth one of the other members had leftover (planned for a larger crowd than we had).  I put them in the freezer for work lunches later in the week.

Had leftover turkey and dressing and made sure to wrap well and put right into fridge for dinner on Monday.

A long day and a night short of sleep added up two tired folks.  When we came in we unpacked foods and then crawled right into bed for a nap.  Best 25 minutes sleep I've had in  a long time.  I felt so much better afterwards.

Our supper this was cereal and toast.  We never want a heavy evening meal when we've had a more than substantial dinner midday. 

Sunday:  I'd bought Mama's Mother's Day gift earlier in the month opting to pay for something she'd bought for her home, since I knew it was something she'd wanted for some time. I was with her when she started to purchase it.  The money for this gift came from my personal savings where I stashed cash I received for Christmas.  That little fund has been handy for all sorts of nice things.  I'm so happy I stashed it and didn't squander it all at once.

Although all my children called this day, I was alone.  Chance worked two 12 hour shifts back to back (24 hours straight)...Some of this extra earnings will be set aside as gasoline money for our vacation.

Visited with Granny.  Took off trash since I was going out anyway.  Also dropped off some mail that needed to go out, and picked up a paper, too. 

Didn't much feel like cooking my own dinner.  The store where I stopped for the paper has a food counter and fried chicken was reasonable.  I did splurge a wee bit...I bought a bottled lemonade, a treat I indulge in only now and then.

Since all roads led homeward and were the same distance, I opted for the slow country roads well away from the main highway.  Such a beautiful day and a really lovely drive past country churches,
homes where families were piling out of cars greeting moms and grandmothers, some carrying dishes of food in their hands as they went up the steps.  Wild roses bloomed here and there and the breeze caused the trees, which have been fully leafed out for weeks, to sway nicely and created that lovely liquid sound that leaves and wind make together.

Spent the afternoon watching my Netflix selection: Season Two of Larkrise to Candleford.  I am so enjoying this series!  I get lost in the scenery, the costumes and the story lines.  It's one of the rare programs I'd say was as good as reading.

Monday:  Up early to make breakfast for Chance when he came in. I'd meant to make a big meal but thinking ahead in my day, I realized we had a heavy meal planned (leftover turkey and dressing) so we had a lighter meal of cheese toast and juice.

Made three pints yogurt.

Washed a full load of clothes.

And a full load of dishes.

My hands are looking better since I started washing dishes only once a day.  Since we load most of our dishes into the dishwasher this isn't a big problem.  As well we're saving water, by filling the sink only once a day and rinsing only one full sink at a time.

Dinner: leftover turkey and dressing and pear salad.  Added steamed broccoli since we had some in the fridge that needed to be used up.

Set up computer in the craft room and went to work on new series and next issue of PennyAnnPoundwise Newsletter.  Making good use of my home space to give me a quiet spot to work has been very beneficial. 

Another benefit of that workstation?  It looks out into the back yard  right into a shady area.  Watching birds in search of insects and seeds was so calming, and allowed my mind to rest periodically.  I saw Brown Thrasher, Oriole, Rust Sided Towhee, Cardinal, Mockingbird and Wren.

Cleaned shower. I love using toilet bowl cleaner on the shower.  In fact,  I use Lysol toilet bowl cleaner in the sink and tub too.  It cuts right through soap scum.  I can put a little on a sponge, wipe over the walls of the shower, leave for five minutes, come back and wash away scum with only minor scrubbing.  I usually buy the cleaner when it's on sale b1g1Free using a coupon to save still more money, for a cost of about $1 a bottle.  A bottle lasts several months.  Saves work, money and TIME.  Triple play savings.

Chance hung a few clothes to dry, put a few in the dryer until almost dry and then hung them to dry.

Had windows open and fans running until a bit past Noon.

Tuesday:  On my own most of the day, Chance went off to play golf.  First thing was light housework (all that work done on Monday saved lots of steps on Tuesday). 

Put a frozen roast into the crock pot with a mix of root vegetables from fridge and pantry.  Cleaned out several bottles of BBQ sauce, syrup, mustard, etc and made a tomato-y topping for the roast, which also gave enough moisture to the dish to steam the vegetables and roast nicely.

Set out meat to partially thaw for rest of week's meals.

Too steamy to open windows.  I opted to dry clothes on the line rather than turning on the dryer indoors.  Hung two loads (sheets and towels) to dry.

Spent the day sewing...or trying to.  Every project started ended the same way: I ran out of thread.  Made out a list of items to shop for the next day, did what work I could. 

Packed Chance's lunch while he was gone.

Sorted out fridge.  Found we had a bowl full of grapes that fell off the stem under the two remaining stems.  Chance doesn't like grapes that fall off the stem...but I'm devious and frugal, too.  I knew my husband loves chilled grapes, that it was hot outdoors and he'd come in steaming.  When he came home, I sat him down with a nice cool drink and a big bowl of chilled grapes, conveniently off the stem.  Not a grape left!

Boiled a half dozen eggs.  Some for egg salad, one for chicken salad, two for my lunch...The shells and water I boiled them in went into waiting plants to give them a nutritious drink.

Neither of us was sure what the other meant to do for lunch and we both ate a light snack and then waited...About 4pm we both decided we didn't want to wait for supper.  Our roast was perfectly done by that time.  I added a crisp green salad.

My unfinished projects (photo taken after I shopped for thread on Wednesday).
   
While working on piecing together pillows (the top of the stack) I discovered the fabric I'd chosen to back them was actually a silky sort of fabric.  Not at all what I had planned for a pillow to use outdoors.  I dug about in my fabric stash and round a red and white gingham with a border print down both edges.  I cut off the border print and then cut my squares.  I think this is a much better match than my original choice of blue and white gingham and this fabric is a nice cotton similar to the napkins I'm using as the pillow fronts.

Wednesday:  After a brief bout of housekeeping, I went off with Mama for our Wednesday shop and lunch.  We went to Walmart which suited both our shopping needs.  My Walmart still has a fabric/craft section and it was the perfect place to buy threads.  I remembered my desire to put a ribbon border on the curtains for the guest room and bought the ribbon and matching thread.  I stuck pretty hard to my list.  I  had only one deviation which was these:

They are plastic salad plates from the Better Homes and Gardens collection.  I thought they were perfect to hang on the wall in this room.  You can see my bedding set below and the ribbons I bought for the curtain borders. 

Those plates were under $2 each and so were the ribbons.  Not bad for decorative touches'.

Half a ripe mango, yogurt and ice cubes made a breakfast smoothie.  I froze the second half of the mango.

When I got home I put these items on the bed and suddenly thought of another children's tea set I'd tucked away.  It would help fill out the empty shelves of the whatnot shelf, I thought.  And so it did.

After playing about with my pretty things, I decided to do some kitchen work.  I made up a pan of biscuits.  Some for breakfasts during the week, some for an evening snack that evening. 

Cooked three small cubed steaks and cut two to fit some of the biscuits.  Used one piece to make a sandwich to go into the work lunch box.

Turned the AC up to 80F while I was out.  Forgot to turn it down when I came in...so it didn't go down to 76F until about an hour before Chance came home.

Too tired to bake.  Now's the time to pull out one of those super sales priced packages of cookies I bought.  Filled the cookie jar without much effort and for under $1.75.

Thursday:  I decided to approach the yard work the same way I approach big jobs inside the house.  Choose an area and work on it.  I began by pruning trees and seedlings right around the house, then went back and picked up all the branches and stacked them.  Raked under the sweet gum in the back yard.  Then I sat on  the deck and noticed the paint daubs on the red shutters.  I've been looking at those daubs for three years or more.  I went inside and got a scrubby sponge and soap and water and went to work.  Removed a good portion of the paint daubs.

My bits of work took about three hours.  Alan came by about an hour after I'd done all I could.  He dug up a rose bush that needed to be moved pronto.  Mentioned that I'd decided to pot the bush until I can settle it to an online friend.  One of her friend's is a landscape gardener.  She sent word to cut it back to the root and let it put out all over again.  Removing the limbs and leaves allows the roots to really focus on growing.  Free advice is priceless when you really want to save a plant!

Alan's fee for his share of yard work (another two hours worth and he accomplished way more than I did) was dinner.  Not a hardship since I cook a meal most every noon anyway. 

A leftover chicken breast from that meal was chopped for Chicken Salad.

After Alan left, I cleared the kitchen, made Chance work lunch for Friday and then settled into my chair and took a much deserved nap. 

Promised Chance a special treat when he came in  that night because the day was HOT.  95F with 59% humidity.  Ugh.  His treat?  A frozen Coke, made with ice cubes and a 12 ounce soda and a tray of ice cubes.  That made enough to give us both a treat at day's end.  I pay about $1.49 for one of the small frozen Cokes at fast food or gas stations.  Our cost?  Less than $.40 for two medium sized drinks.

Friday:  Some mornings the alarm is extremely annoying...Nevertheless the day was begun and so was the work of the day. 

The mango I froze on Wednesday, more homemade yogurt and a cup of pineapple chunks I needed to use up made this mornings breakfast smoothie.  So good and filling.  No added sugar and 3 fruit servings for this day.

I knew I needed some fresh produce and fruit, eggs and a loaf of bread to go through the weekend.  I've been reading thrifty blogs and been re inspired about coupon shopping...I looked at sales of various stores, sorted coupons, gathered the best of the best for the day's shopping and off I went.  I also had plans to spend a set amount of money on mulch and plants for the house.  And I had a thrift store agenda based upon a change of decor in the living room.  Tall orders for a day that must also include my pre-Shabat cleaning for the weekend, planning meals for the weekend, etc.

I thought long and hard about my route before leaving home. I had no desire to waste gasoline.  I knew I'd need to fill up the car and was not anxious to see that total.

First I ran errands here in town, going by the bank and post office, dropping off trash at the dumpster.
Then I drove two towns over to a thrift store that was on my route.  Walked in the front door, went right to the section I needed to check, found one item, walked down two aisles and found a second item.  Both are perfect for my living room and I had no need to look further.  Spent $3.

Next was Goodwill.  I look for several things when I go to Goodwill.  I always check the books.  Today found two, for $4.   Nice hardback editions, too.  Then I always wander down the furniture aisle.  Sorely tempted today by a big outdoor metal table (the grid sort of metal) and eight chairs for $60...Realized it was the lifestyle the table represented and had nothing to do with my own life...sigh.  Saved that $60 anyway.  Sometimes it pays to really think about why we want something.  I liked the idea of having guests seated around the table.  Reality: guests usually want us to be the guest rather than drive all the way out to our home.  I live in Georgia.  An outdoor table would be used only about 4 weeks out of the year.

I always look for nice baby blankets.  I donate these and try to find the ones that were obviously not used.  I found a like new receiving blanket today for $1.  While digging through the linens I came across four brand new packets of matched napkins, two to each packet.  They were the right color to match two sets of place mats I already have.  The napkins were less than $2 per packet.

My real goal today was to find pillows to go into those pillow covers I was making.  I needed a small set of pillows for the front porch and larger ones for the deck chairs.  Why buy brand new pillow forms to put into outdoor pillows?  If I forget them and they get wet or Maddie takes them out to the yard, I'll be a lot sadder if I paid more for them.  I found 2 pillows for $2 each. Satisfied, I left that store only a little lighter in pocket and richer in goods.     

Next shopping took me to the home and garden center.  I needed to buy mulch, wanted six packs of potting plants, and herbs.  I had some of that Christmas gift money set aside for these purchases.  I bought 8 bags of mulch, six packs of portulaca, three colors of petunias, one of impatiens and one of salvia.  These are all hardy, long lived annuals.  They will survive our heat and reseed and bring on new plants as the season goes on and on. 

My herbs were basil, sage, thyme.  I spent far more for them than for the six packs but I should be able to harvest from these plants all summer and well into the autumn months, possibly even into winter before the plants begin to die back.

Next stop grocery store.  I bought buy one get one free deals on grape juice and cat food.  Found an unadvertised b1g1 deal on bread, too.  I knew I had plenty of room in the freezer so I bought the two loaves.  I walked the perimeter of the store.  I got a bag of apples (far less expensive to buy a bag of apples than to choose individual apples.  A bag cost $3.99.  Individual apples of the same variety cost $1.99 a pound.  That's about two apples. 

Another good buy this week was seedless watermelon.  I love watermelon and cucumbers.  Both have a vehement dislike of  me.  In summer, I will always buy seedless melon even though it's a bit more costly than regular melon.  I bought a small mini melon today for $4.  This is what I did with it.
First I cut into quarters. Then I slice it.  I set aside the end pieces.


Now I have a big bag of wedges ready to chill.  My family loves to have a wedge or two for impromptu summer snacking.  I scooped the melon out of the end pieces and put them in a container to send in Chance's work lunch.  Working atop the cloth is much less messy than trying to cut the melon a cutting board or counter top.  The cloth absorbs the juices that run out of the melon and I need only to rinse the cloth and then wipe the counter.   

Doesn't it look like a much more substantial purchase when it's all divvied up like that? 

I didn't make any impulse purchases at all in the grocery.  That is a record for me!  Think of all the money saved in that store alone, just by sticking to my list and buying nothing but what was on it.

Last stop CVS.  Milk there is more expensive than at the grocery, but this week was a little lower and had a $1 ECB offer.  That made it less than the cost of grocery store milk.  I had ECB I needed to spend.

I noted a sale on a brand of razors: b1g1 50% off. Normally I pay no attention to those sorts of deals but I'd just sorted coupons and recalled a coupon that read b1g1 Free.  I paid less than $1 a package for the razors.  The amount spent used the last of my expiring ECBs. 

Bought toothpaste and toothbrushes on sale as well.  Used coupon for both items.  Earned ECB back on the two purchases.  Final cost to me worked out to $0.  That's my sort of shopping.

Was pleased to note gasoline had dropped nearly $.60/gallon since Sunday.  I filled the car up.  I'd heard oil prices were on the rise again and I'm pretty sure that means gasoline is going right back up.

It was late.  I was famished, and hot and miserable.  I wanted to get something to eat and something cold to drink, but decided to drink the water I brought from home.  I came home and heated up one of those BBQ chicken sandwiches we'd put in the freezer over the weekend.  Settled with a glass of iced water, sandwich and peaches left in fridge.

Put that new gallon of milk in the freezer since I have almost a full gallon in the fridge.

Spent the last part of the afternoon preparing work lunches for Saturday and Sunday, planning meals ahead for the weekend and cleaning house.  It was so nice to sit down on the porch with Maddie while she ate, sip my iced water and rest.  Satisfaction filled me.  I'd put in a hard week of work and I couls see my accomplishments inside, outside and in the checkbook as well.  Flowers nodded at me, basil and sage scented the air.  A nice breeze kept gnats and mosquitoes at bay.  Lovely end to a busy day and a busy week.

Monday, May 9, 2011

NEW SERIES: Homemaking 101 Intro Post

A couple of months ago a young woman, V,  came to spend the day with me.  We had such fun talking all day long!  She's a newlywed with a deployed husband and in June of this year she becomes, in her own words, "A member of the bon-bon club."  That statement refers to a joke between Chance and I about what a homemaker does all day long "Sits with her feet up, watching soaps and eating bon-bons..."  Fulltime homemakers know that isn't true at all!  The problem however, is that many homemakers, new ones and old ones alike, haven't a clue how to keep a house, make out a budget, develop a routine of housework, have a bit of fun and plan their time for play and craft.

V contacted me early last week. She's going to try her hand at being a full time homemaker and work from home part time.  She has lots of questions about how to manage her budget, her time, her skills and I'm all for helping her.  If I can save her some of the trials and errors I went through I'll be happy.  If I pay attention to her as she goes along, I may even learn a few things myself and that will make me even happier!

I didn't step into homemaking knowing all about it.  Mama had made sure I knew how to do basic cleaning but deep cleaning was unheard of in our home and in mine until this recent time at home.  I could can and freeze garden harvest but had (have) no clue how to plant.  I could sew, but can't cut a pattern and alter it to fit.  I could iron all sorts of fabrics all day long and Daddy said my creases rivalled military regulation creases, but washing clothes?  Hadn't a clue.  I could plan for and cook a decent meal but didn't know a thing about grocery shopping.  Money management was never mentioned...And let's just skip the whole time management issue okay? That was unheard of in my childhood home as well.

I learned the hard way that a limited amount of time daily plus an unlimited number of duties could lead to one of two outcomes: an overtired frustrated homemaker, or a sloth. I've been both in equal measure!  That's why I say over and over again, this incarnation of being a fulltime homemaker I was determined to treat it as a vocation not a vacation, but I'm a huge believer in giving up perfectionism as well.  My goals are simple: a clean orderly home without undue labor, know and live within my budget, good meals with little waste, work and rest in good measure, quality time with my husband. 

It took quite a bit of trial and error to get here.  There were mistakes, poor choices, advise from both seasoned and new homemaker's alike that helped me reach this point.  Mind you, I'm still learning.  It's important to remember this about homemaking: it's never stagnant, always changing.

In this series of posts, I plan to address budget, home routines, order and beauty in the home, recognizing time and money wasters, self-sufficiency and other subjects that relate to creating and running a home that is uniquely suited to those who live there.

As always, if there are any questions about a post or areas you'd like to see addressed then please let me know.  If you have helpful suggestions send those in too, because we can all use a little extra expert help and any woman who runs her own home successfully is certainly an expert.

Make Do and Mend Mondays


Heidi @ Cranberrychronicles.blogspot.com has started a new Monday project that I just love.  I promised her last week I'd join in and post the logo she made to my website as well.  This week she posted her photo of her make do project and promptly emailed me that  she was anxious to see what I came up with.  Well...I certainly had put myself in the hot seat! lol  My projects are not nearly so nicely executed as Heidi's but this is what I've done today.  I've had these pieces for some time in my chifforobe where I keep china and it seemed a shame not to use them.  In fairness, the big compote has been in the fridge for the past several weeks with fruit (apples, and later grapes) but since I'm out of both fruits the bowl was washed and slated to go back to the cupboard.  I posted a photo at the beginning of the year from BHG where they used such pieces to organize a desk and I thought of that this morning when I was about to put away the compote.  So here's my "Make Do" project for this week:

I just remembered I have a creamer in the shed with a chipped edge.  I think I'll do as Granny used to do and sand down the chipped place then use it to hold my color pencils.

What ways can you Mend or Make Do today?  Anyone up for the challenge?  Let me and Heidi know if you join us and let us see your project.